One-to-One Coaching

Radical Love and Honesty to Help You Remember Your True Power

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I am now offering One-to-One Coaching through Refine The Mind.

Dive deep with me for a few weeks to let go of what is not serving you, deepen trust in Nature, shift to a freer and more aligned state, and magnetize people and life situations that resonate with your Soul’s Highest Excitement.

Applying my deep understanding of spirituality, self-healing, psychology, lifestyle design, and self-development, I can help you shift into a more beautiful, light, and liberating reality.

Through deep listening and holding an energy of unconditional Love, I can create a context in which you are able to share openly whatever is on your heart. I can then skillfully employ radical honesty to help you see your life situation in a new light, deepen self-understanding, and develop strategies for letting go of what is not serving you and stepping into your Power.

One of my primary aims is to help you reconnect with your deep Self and Intuition, which already know the answers you seek, such that you may remain in touch with this invaluable compass for the rest of your days.

Apply to work one-to-one with me here.

If your application resonates and I have open space, I will reach out to you to schedule a free ~30-minute strategy session to explore your life situation and find out if we’re a good fit to work together. I’m presently looking for ~1-2 individuals who are ready for a Major Shift.

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You are an Infinitely Powerful Being.

You are being called to remember and reclaim your True Power. I can help you.

These are some of my key areas of Understanding that may be useful on your Path:

  1. Letting go of fear, guilt, anger, anxiety, and resentment
  2. Shifting to a state of greater internal Power and Freedom
  3. Transmuting difficult thoughts and emotions
  4. Reconnecting with your Intuition, your Inner Guidance System
  5. Flowing with and trusting Nature
  6. Self-healing and shadow integration
  7. Following your Highest Excitement
  8. Lifestyle design, digital nomadism, travel hacking
  9. Creativity and flow states
  10. Efficiency and time management
  11. Online entrepreneurship and dream business creation
  12. Skillfully navigating modern life
  13. Frugality, minimalism, self-reliance
  14. Sacred romance and relationships 
  15. Practical non-dogmatic spirituality and meditation
  16. Living in an abundance matrix
  17. Breaking toxic habits and forming vital habits
  18. The mechanics of how we create our realities

Apply to work one-to-one with me here.

Who am I?

jordan bates costa rica goku the wizard kingHi, I’m Jordan Bates. I’m the Originator of Refine The Mind and Co-Creator of HighExistence. In 2013 I moved to South Korea to teach English, embarking on a nomadic journey that would lead me to 32 countries. In the process I became a Writer, Rapper, Teacher, and Entrepreneur. For ~9 years I’ve been on a quest to understand how we can heal and liberate ourselves, thus contributing to the upliftment of All. Love, Joy, Peace, Freedom, Power. 🔥⚔️

Kind Words About My Work

“I consider myself and my life all the more blessed for having Jordan Bates as a friend and mentor. His resilient awareness of life’s intricacies and his passionate commitment to giving his best to the world make him both an inspiration as well as an example of how we can all work towards building more acceptance and grace into our lives. Jordan hasn’t simply had it easy and has faced challenges that could certainly break any person, but instead, Jordan has integrated and learned from his pain, making even some of the worst experiences his most valuable. This alchemical ability is nothing short of magick…”

— Mayry, 30, USA

“I met Jordan Bates for the first time during our “face to face” video interview call leading up to an Apotheosis retreat he was hosting. During this initial video call it became increasingly apparent that this was no ‘ordinary’ human interaction. Something completely different was occurring that took me a while to comprehend, and it was this: I was being listened to and paid attention to on a level that I probably hadn’t experienced since I was a tiny child… Seeing this in Jordan has helped me cultivate this in my own life which has wholly shifted my reality into a more loving, open, and authentic experience. This ability to “hold space” is one of the most formidable of all human skills. From this foundation comes wisdom, intuition, love, compassion, empathy, all the good shit. Jordan has dedicated his life to the service of others, and I am undeniably a much wiser, mature, and capable human being since knowing him.”

— Travis, 37, USA

“If a zombie apocalypse happened, one of the first people I’d call to help me survive and strategize would be Jordan Bates. Jokes aside, Jordan is one of the smartest people I’ve ever encountered. His attention to detail and linguistic capabilities are savant-level. This coupled with his huge heart and unwavering openness to feedback makes him a truly unique and brilliant man. On a personal level, I trust Jordan with my life. He is a truly good person and expresses a genuine concern for his own level of integrity in all situations. It’s very important to him that he conducts himself in a way that does not harm other beings where that can be avoided. The best part, however, is that beyond the razor-sharp intelligence and creative wizard skills that Jordan possesses, he is incredibly easy to be around—always ready to see the funny side of life and put deep, profound, meaningful conversations above pretentious, vacuous debating.”

 Jon, 29, Wales

Pricing for Coaching

My pricing for coaching is flexible, though it’s likely to increase over time, so applying sooner may be a good idea. Scholarships are possible; you can see more info on pricing or request a scholarship when you apply.

Coaching typically takes place over 5-7 weeks and includes weekly 75-minute video consultations, weekly co-designed quests, accountability, and lifetime access to my course, The Amor Fati Course.

My short application is designed to be a valuable reflective exercise:

Apply to work one-to-one with me here.


You are beautiful just as you are.

Thank you for existing.

Love, Joy, Peace, Freedom, Power,
Jordan Bates